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Easy going homebody type who enjoys good conversation and the simple things in life: coffee, friends, card games, sitcoms, quiet dinners for two or curled up on a couch with that special someone and watching t.v. and popping junk food. I'm a 55 y.o. black man (part Italian) with a warm smile, sensitive authentic personality and a few extra pounds who lives alone with his cat. I moved to San Mateo nearly 4 years ago after 30 years in San Francisco. I love the quiet but would like to connect with white gay men for friendship and more if the chemistry is there. I haven't dated in a long time and would like to take things slow and see where they lead. I think relationships take time and dedication to build with each step an opportunity for both of us to learn about ourselves and each other. Having said that, I'm not a prude either and am not aversed to having sex sooner rather than later if the spirit moves us. I consider myself a bottom and I still think about sex every 8 seconds (or whatever the thinker tank documented number is for men).

Scorpio

A Few Extra Pounds

5' 11 (1.8 m)

Brown

African American

Single

No

No

Smile

Pierced... But Only Ear(s)

Salt And Pepper

Cat

No

Some College

Full-time

Administrative / Management

Administrative Assistant

Alone, With Pet(s)

All Is Calm

No

No

Quiet One

Reserved

Arts & Crafts, Reading, Learning, Games, Dancing, Religion / Spirituality, Cooking, Playing Cards

Hanging Out With Friends, Staying At Home, The Movies, Relaxing, Sleeping, Reading A Book, Tv

Meeting at a neutral place like a coffee shop or a nice quiet dinner for two, and beginning to get to know each other.

eating Rattlesnake meat. I hear it tastes like chicken.

Friendly, Someone They Want To Be

Christian

Once A Month

Middle Of The Road

Learn more and more how to be Authentic, true to myself and live from that Truth.

Campy, Clever, Dry / Sarcastic, Friendly

Situation Comedies, Movies, Re-runs

Horror, Thriller

Classical, New age

Anthology, Classic, Fiction, Horror, Religious

being introverted I'm not much on crowds but can be persuaded to go to a good street fair. Love coffee shops for intimate conversation, and love a good meat & potatoes restaurant as well as Chinese, Mexican and Italian. I also enjoy cooking for someone

Intelligence, Good Looks, Humor, Empathy, Sensitivity, Flirtatiousness, Wit, Thoughtfullness

I look for sincere people; I'm drawn to others with a deep since of self worth and awareness, who are honest but not brutal in the name of "honesty". It's important that my friend/mate has a spiritual sense, a positive connection with the "Divine" however it may express itself through him. I'm also attracted to creatives as I am an artist and dancer. Also like a man with a good appetite and who isn't afraid of good ol' fashioned cooking.

Friend, Date, Intimate, Committed