Engels

Easy going homebody type who enjoys good conversation and the simple things in life: coffee, friends, card games, sitcoms, quiet dinners for two or curled up on a couch with that special someone and watching t.v. and popping junk food. I'm a 55 y.o. black man (part Italian) with a warm smile, sensitive authentic personality and a few extra pounds who lives alone with his cat. I moved to San Mateo nearly 4 years ago after 30 years in San Francisco. I love the quiet but would like to connect with white gay men for friendship and more if the chemistry is there. I haven't dated in a long time and would like to take things slow and see where they lead. I think relationships take time and dedication to build with each step an opportunity for both of us to learn about ourselves and each other. Having said that, I'm not a prude either and am not aversed to having sex sooner rather than later if the spirit moves us. I consider myself a bottom and I still think about sex every 8 seconds (or whatever the thinker tank documented number is for men).

Schorpioen

Een paar extra kilo's

5' 11 (1.8 m)

Bruin

Afro-Amerikaans

Single

Nee

Nee

Glimlach

Piercings, maar alleen in mijn oren

Halfblond

Kat

Nee

MBO

Voltijd

Administratief / Management

Administrative Assistant

Alleen, Met Huisdier(en)

Is het lekker rustig

Nee

Nee

Stil

Gereserveerd

Knutselen, Lezen, Nieuwe Dingen Leren, Spellen, Dansen, Religie / Spiritualiteit, Koken, Kaarten spelen

Met Vrienden zijn, Thuis blijven, Films, Relaxen, Slapen, Een boek lezen, Tv

Meeting at a neutral place like a coffee shop or a nice quiet dinner for two, and beginning to get to know each other.

eating Rattlesnake meat. I hear it tastes like chicken.

Vriendelijk, Iemand die ze willen zijn

Christelijk

Een keer per maand

Learn more and more how to be Authentic, true to myself and live from that Truth.

Camp, Slim, Droge Humor / Sarcastisch, Vriendelijk

Komedies, Films, Herhalingen

Horror, Thriller

Klassiek, New Age

Anthologie, Klassiek , Fictie, Horror, Religieus

being introverted I'm not much on crowds but can be persuaded to go to a good street fair. Love coffee shops for intimate conversation, and love a good meat & potatoes restaurant as well as Chinese, Mexican and Italian. I also enjoy cooking for someone

Intelligentie, Goed Uiterlijk, Humor, Empathie, Gevoeligheid, Flirterig, Gevatheid, Bedachtzaamheid

I look for sincere people; I'm drawn to others with a deep since of self worth and awareness, who are honest but not brutal in the name of "honesty". It's important that my friend/mate has a spiritual sense, a positive connection with the "Divine" however it may express itself through him. I'm also attracted to creatives as I am an artist and dancer. Also like a man with a good appetite and who isn't afraid of good ol' fashioned cooking.

Vriend, Date, Intimiteit, Vastigheid